Why Are You So Anxious?
Luke 12:22-34 (NRSV)
He said to his disciples, “Therefore I tell you, do not
worry about your life, what you will eat, or about your body, what you will
wear. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing. Consider the
ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and
yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds! And can any
of you by worrying add a single hour to your span of life? If then you are not
able to do so small a thing as that, why do you worry about the rest? Consider
the lilies, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; yet I tell you, even
Solomon in all his glory was not clothed like one of these. But if God so
clothes the grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown
into the oven, how much more will he clothe you—you of little faith! And do not
keep striving for what you are to eat and what you are to drink, and do not
keep worrying. For it is the nations of the world that strive after all these
things, and your Father knows that you need them. Instead, strive for his
kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well.
“Do not be afraid, little flock, for it is your Father’s
good pleasure to give you the kingdom. Sell your possessions, and give alms.
Make purses for yourselves that do not wear out, an unfailing treasure in
heaven, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. For where your treasure
is, there your heart will be also.
Earlier this week I asked on FaceBook: “what are the things
that you are anxious about?” The answers
really were not too surprising.
·
Health
Beth Caddick
said:
Ben's health and all that comes with it -
insurance, appointments, prescriptions, good days/bad days, fear of
complications - while all manageable causes me to be anxious at times
·
Employment
Job
performance
Salary
Job
security
·
Kids --- grandkids ---- parents
·
Future
Keith Howard shared about getting his house
sold here in Munster while they set up their new house in Colorado
·
Everything
Face it, some people worry about
everything.
One of my favorite people of all time was a
constant worrier --- Margaret McNurlan
All I have to do is wring my hands, and
many of you know that I am paying homage to her!
But
how does worrying help us?
A man was seen fleeing down the hall of the
hospital just before his operation. A security guard stopped him before he
could leave the hospital and asked, “What’s the matter?”
The man said, “I heard the nurse say, ‘It’s a very simple operation, don’t worry, I’m sure it will be all right.’”
“She was just trying to comfort you,” said the security guard. “What’s so frightening about that?”
“She wasn’t talking to me,” exclaimed the man. “She was talking to the doctor!”
The man said, “I heard the nurse say, ‘It’s a very simple operation, don’t worry, I’m sure it will be all right.’”
“She was just trying to comfort you,” said the security guard. “What’s so frightening about that?”
“She wasn’t talking to me,” exclaimed the man. “She was talking to the doctor!”
Maybe
in that situation we should be worrying ---
But
Seriously --- how does worrying change ANYTHING?
Jesus
very clearly tells us two things in our passage today.
1. Instead of worrying --- we should TRUST
GOD
2. Worrying is at best --- a waste of time!
For
whatever reason, many of us have become convinced --- maybe only on a
subconscious level --- that if we "worry enough" we can prevent bad
things from happening.
When
my girls lived at home --- even when they were home on a break from college ---
if they went out for the evening I COULD NOT GO TO SLEEP
Anybody else do that?
I
would wait up until they came in the door, and then I could go to sleep.
I
am not sure what I was expecting to happen --- and how my waiting up worrying
did anything --- but I was convinced it did.
Studies
show that excessive worry --- not only doesn't prevent bad things from
happening --- but it can also create all kinds of negative effects emotionally
as well as physically.
Worrying
is feeling uneasy or being overly concerned about a situation or problem.
With
excessive worrying, your mind and body go into overdrive as you constantly
focus on "what might happen."
The
problem with excessive worrying is that we lose begin to lose sight of reality
A sense of impending doom can overtake
us
Our fears become even more unrealistic
Excessive
worrying can affect our daily life in that it can:
·
interfere with our appetite
·
damage our relationships
·
cause us to lose sleep
·
which of course can cause increase stress (and
more worry) with work
One
of the side effects of worry is that many people try to self medicate it away
Which,
of course, can lead to
·
overeating
·
smoking
·
using drugs or alcohol
As
if that isn't enough ---- excessive worrying can also lead to all kinds of
health problems.
The
hormones that are produced by worry have all kinds of potential negative
effects.
According
to WebMD some of the physical reactions that can happen as a result of worry
related stress hormones include:
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Difficulty swallowing
·
Dizziness
·
Dry mouth
·
Fast heartbeat
·
Fatigue
·
Headaches
·
Inability to concentrate
·
Irritability
·
Muscle aches
·
Muscle tension
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Nausea
·
Nervous energy
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Rapid breathing
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Shortness of breath
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Sweating
·
Trembling and twitching
And
of course all those can lead to very serious medical conditions such as:
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Suppression of the immune system
·
Digestive disorders
·
Muscle tension
·
Short-term memory loss
·
Premature coronary artery disease
·
Heart attack
If
excessive worrying and high anxiety go untreated, they can lead to depression
and even suicidal thoughts.
In
the December 2006 issue of the Mayo
Clinic Proceedings medical journal they shared the results of a
study looking to see if worrying can add (or take away) years from a person's
life.
I
don't think that the researchers were thinking of our passage from Scripture
--- but the conclusion suggests that Jesus was right.
But
it also revealed a surprising secondary conclusion --- suggesting that NOT
being a chronic worrier can add not only an hour, but perhaps even years to
your life.
The
study began back in the mid-60s when some 7,000 students at the University of
North Carolina at Chapel Hill took the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality
Inventory, a test that, among other things, measured the participants’ tendency
to be optimistic or pessimistic.
Of
that group, 1,630 were found by the test to be clearly pessimists and 923 to be
clearly optimists.
The rest fell somewhere in the middle of a
continuum between the clear extremes.
Over
the next four decades, 476 of those who had taken the test died, from causes
ranging from accident -- to illness -- to suicide -- to homicide.
By tracking and collating all this information, researchers determined that --- the pessimists had a significantly greater likelihood of dying sooner from any cause than did the optimists.
By tracking and collating all this information, researchers determined that --- the pessimists had a significantly greater likelihood of dying sooner from any cause than did the optimists.
As
the dry language of the findings report puts it,
“... those who scored as pessimistic had
decreased rates of longevity compared with optimistic individuals.”
It
also said,
“The current results replicate, in a
non-medical sample, those of [earlier studies] that suggest that optimism is
associated with increased survival.”
In
other words: WORRY CAN CAUSE YOU TO
DIE SOONER
NOT WORRYING CAN
HELP YOU TO LIVE LONGER!
WOW! Jesus was right!
But
the other thing that Jesus tells us is we need to replace our worry with TRUST
in God.
Trusting
God is hard
I
think it is hard because we are not really sure what it means to TRUST God.
And
I will be honest, I don't think "the Church" has done a very good job
on explaining just what it means to TRUST GOD.
We
are all over the board in our advice.
Let
me try to explain
For
some people, trusting God means turning EVERYTHING
over to God.
And
that can get played out in a hard version and in a soft version.
In
the hard version it can take the shape of:
IF
it is God's will --- THEN God will
make it happen.
In
this extreme version:
I don't need to do anything but wait for
God's will to take place
We
have seen this played out in the news when a family refuses to let a hospital or
doctor treat their sick child.
For
them, to allow a doctor to treat the illness is not trusting God.
Now
for most of us, that makes no sense. We
have come to the position that God uses medicine to heal us.
However,
and this is the softer version --- we still believe that God has given us ---
or sent us to --- a special doctor ---
Thus a doctor who is a believer is for some
a plus and for others a necessity.
For
most of us --- who call Ridge Church home --- and have grown up in main-line
protestant churches ----- we believe in a concept called FREE WILL
That
concept too has a soft and a harder version --- and this affects how we
understand trust.
The
soft version believes that while we have a free while --- God still interacts
and intercedes on behalf of people.
God
sometimes breaks the laws of nature and performs what we commonly call
MIRACLES.
And those miracles happen --- we often
believe --- to those people who have a large amount trust or what we would call
a strong faith.
The
harder version believes that God gives us choices and that our choices and
actions determine the outcome ---- and not divine intervention.
God
and the Bible are there as guides to help us in our choices.
In
this understanding ---- God is not seen as an arbitrary interventionist in
human lives.
This
goes without saying ---- but I want to affirm ---- we, of course, are all over
the spectrum on these concepts --- and one of the things I have observed is that
we often are not consistent (or even rational) in our beliefs ----
understandings --- about them.
But
regardless of where we stand --- Jesus is calling us to recognize that by
putting our trust in the way of God as demonstrated in the life of Jesus ----
our lives will be better.
So,
what does all that worrying do?
Instead
of worrying --- get busy making a kingdom difference for Jesus.