Monday, July 15, 2019

The Power of Courage


Changed a bunch of this on the fly Sunday.  You may want to check out the audio recording instead.



Deuteronomy 31:6 (Common English Bible)
Be strong! Be fearless! Don’t be afraid and don’t be scared by your enemies, because the Lord your God is the one who marches with you. He won’t let you down, and he won’t abandon you. 

Hebrews 13:5-6 (Common English Bible)
Your way of life should be free from the love of money, and you should be content with what you have. After all, he has said, I will never leave you or abandon you. This is why we can confidently say,

The Lord is my helper,
    and I won’t be afraid.
What can people do to me?


What does it mean to have courage?

The dictionary defines courage as: “the quality of mind or spirit that enables a person to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc., without fear; bravery.”

·         I have jumped off a cliff into the ocean
·         I have jumped out of a perfectly good airplane
·         I have helped create a non-profit organization that raised over $15 million dollars and helped 3,600 families devastated in flooding caused by Hurricane Ike in 2008
§  In the process, it was the first and only time in my life that an elected official asked me for a bribe
§  I stood up to union workers in NW Indiana in order to help more families and was able to convince them to join us and not fight us
·         I started a church with Nancy, Jessica and a hope and a prayer

By our definition above, I certainly did not demonstrate courage --- because believe me FEAR was a factor in all of them.

On July 20th, 1969 I was at Camp Edwards in East Troy, Wisconsin when we all gathered around a transistor radio to listen in as Neil Armstrong took that first "Giant Leap for Mankind"
Now that took courage --- but again, by our definition, was it courage? 

You could hear the fear in the voices of Mission Control, and Buzz Aldrin and Neil Armstrong when their computer gave them a warning signal shortly before landing on the lunar surface.

So maybe our definition of courage isn’t completely accurate.

In 1953, Paul Tillich wrote: The Courage To Be.

Tillich was consumed with the existential questions of human existence and more specifically what is called ontology --- the study of being.

Since the nineteenth century, belief in God has become more difficult than at any point in human history.

Tillich writes:
“Feuerbach explained God away in terms of the infinite desire of the human heart; Marx explained [God] away in terms of an ideological attempt to rise above the given reality; Nietzsche as weakness of the will to live."

Consequently, we live in an age of unprecedented anxiety he suggests.

Tillich outlines three types of anxiety and offers three ways to display --- what he calls --- the courage to be.

Tillich writes:
We are struck with the anxiety of fate and death --- this is the most basic and universal form of anxiety --- for without God, we cannot be assured that we will continue existing after our bodily deaths.

          It is the recognition of our mortality

We become anxious when we are unsure whether our actions create a causal damnation which leads to a very real and quite unavoidable death

We display courage when we cease to rely on others to tell us what will come of us, (what will happen when we die etc.) and begin seeking those answers out for ourselves.

Tillich call this the "courage of confidence"

Second, we are struck with the anxiety of guilt and condemnation --- we know that without God there can be no assurance about the reality of any moral principle and therefore we cannot perform morally meaningful actions

This anxiety afflicts our moral self-affirmation.

We as humans are responsible for our moral being, and when asked by our judge (whomever that may be) what we have made of ourselves we must answer.
The anxiety is produced when we realize our being is unsatisfactory.

Tillich writes: "It [Nonbeing] threatens man's moral self-affirmation, relatively in terms of guilt, absolutely in terms of condemnation".

We display courage when we first identify our sin; despair or whatever is causing us guilt or afflicting condemnation.

We then rely on the idea that we are accepted regardless.

Again Tillich writes:
"The courage to be is the courage to accept oneself as accepted in spite of being unacceptable".

Third, we are struck with the anxiety of emptiness and meaninglessness --- for without God, we cannot be assured that existence has any real, concrete meaning or purpose.

This Anxiety of Meaninglessness and Emptiness attacks our being as a whole.

We worry about the loss of an ultimate concern, goal or purpose.

This anxiety is also brought on by a loss of spirituality.

We as beings feel the threat of non-being when we feel we have no place or purpose in the world. "It [Nonbeing] threatens [one’s] spiritual self-affirmation, relatively in terms of emptiness, absolutely in terms of meaninglessness".

We display the courage to be when facing this anxiety by displaying true faith, and by again, self-affirming oneself.

We draw from the "power of being" which is God for Tillich and use that faith to in turn affirm ourselves and negate the non-being.

We can find our meaning and purpose through the "power of being".

Tillich writes that the ultimate source of the courage to be is the "God above God," which transcends the theistic idea of God.

Thus for Tillich, courage is the courage to be YOU whom God has created.
          To recognize that God gives us purpose
          To recognize that God accepts us

Or as Krista Tippet described Tillich’s understanding of courage --- courage is about the way that we live our lives --- every day . . .

On June 22, 1996, 18-year-old Keshia Thomas attended a counter rally in her home town of Ann Arbor Michigan

Hundreds of protesters turned out to tell the white supremacist KKK members that they were not welcome in their town.

At one point during the event, a man with a SS tattoo and wearing a t-shirt emblazoned with a Confederate flag ended up on the protesters' side of the fence and a small group began to chase him. He was quickly knocked to the ground and people began kicking and hitting him.

As people began to shout, "Kill the Nazi," 18-year-old Keshia, fearing that mob mentality had taken over, decided to act.

She threw herself on top of the man she had come to protest, protecting him from the blows, and told the crowd that you "can't beat goodness into a person."

In discussing her motivation for this courageous act after the event, she stated,
"Someone had to step out of the pack and say, 'this isn't right'... I knew what it was like to be hurt. The many times that that happened, I wish someone would have stood up for me... violence is violence - nobody deserves to be hurt, especially not for an idea."

Several months after the event, a young man came up to Keshia to say thanks, telling her that the man she had protected was his father.

For Keshia, learning that he had a son brought even greater significance to her heroic act. As she observed,
"For the most part, people who hurt... they come from hurt. It is a cycle. Let's say they had killed him or hurt him really bad. How does the son feel? Does he carry on the violence?"

Mark Brunner, was a student photographer that day and took the now famous photograph, added that what was so remarkable was who Keshia Thomas saved:
"She put herself at physical risk to protect someone who, in my opinion, would not have done the same for her. Who does that in this world?"

COURAGE!

Last Monday evening, a dear friend was invited to sit in front of a camera and tell his story.

To tell why, despite being gay, he had not left the church or the God he loves.

That is courage.

I have never stood up like Keshia did and risked my life, or even really risked my livelihood for someone else.

Throughout the Bible, God promises, not only the Israelites --- but all of us --- that we would never be abandoned.

How in the midst of the Holocaust someone like Eva Kor kept her faith --- I have no idea.
          I have never been challenged like that

          But Keshia and Eva demonstrated amazing courage
Not the courage to jump out of an airplane --- but the courage to live their life fully --- every day

Each morning I read Richard Rohr's daily devotion that comes by email.

The focus has been on prophets lately.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, the German Lutheran Pastor who was executed by the Nazi's in 1945 at Flossenburg prison camp --- shortly before it was liberated, once wrote:
We live by responding to the word of God . . . since this word is addressed to our entire life, the response, too, can only be an entire one; it must be given with our entire life as it is realized in all our several actions.

Following Christ is a matter of engagement in this world, Bonhoeffer writes:
“living unreservedly in life’s duties, problems, successes and failures, experiences and perplexities. In so doing we throw ourselves completely into the arms of God, taking seriously, not our own sufferings, but those of God in the world . . . That, I think is faith, that is metanoia.” (transformation)

Bonhoeffer like Tillich, came to understand that courage is about the work we do.
          How we live every day

So how do we live courageous lives?

General Tom Jones shared with me a wonderful quick read called: The 10 Second Rule, written by Clare De Graaf

The simple premise of the book is that throughout the day, most of us have impressions that we are to do something --- and we are reasonably certain that it is Jesus that wants us to do it.

It could be an impression to either do something good for someone or it could be a warning about not doing something that would not be honoring to God.

While we can feel the nudge from Jesus, it is amazing how often we almost simultaneously sense another voice whispering: “You don’t have time to do that – helping that person could get messy – you can’t afford to help them right now – it’s okay, one more time won’t kill you – send it, you’ve been wronged!”

And when we listen to that other voice, the moment of opportunity passes (often to our relief).

DeGraaf writes:
Because I knew that almost every decision to obey would cost me something – time, money, embarrassment, inconvenience, or a momentary pleasure denied . . . By choosing not to obey Jesus, I could avoid all of that! As a result, I found myself settling for good enough almost daily – which is kryptonite for any would-be followers of Jesus!

He explains how he learned a simple rule that helped him break that cycle.

He called it:  The 10 Second Rule:
“Just do the next thing you’re reasonably certain Jesus wants you to do.”
(and do it immediately before you change your mind!)

The question remains --- how do we know exactly what Jesus wants us to do!

Most of us have never actually heard God speak.

But, the more we fall in love with Jesus, through prayer and study --- the more confident we can become in responding to the opportunities that DAILY come our way.

Sure, we can never be 100% certain.

But I would suggest that the need for certainty is often the enemy of doing what God wants us to do!

Let’s just say this impression wasn’t from God.
So what?
You’ve still done something good for another human or kept yourself from something harmful. How can that not be the will of God?

This simple rule gives you a place to begin following Jesus, right now – today --- maybe even for the first time.

It’s following Jesus made simple and being led by Jesus, moment by moment, day by day (or even in just the next 10 seconds!).

Jesus said, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” Luke 9:23.

Simply put, it’s trusting Jesus enough to say “no” to what we want, and “yes” to what Jesus wants.

If you want to know what courage is --- it is saying YES, when the opportunity presents itself later today.

Courage isn’t about BIG, heroic deeds --- it’s not about jumping out of an airplane, or even walking on the moon --- courage is about recognizing that you are a child of God, and as God’s child, you can make a difference every moment of every day in how you live.

I invite you to live courageously!

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