Tuesday, November 12, 2019

The Way of Gratitude: Give and It Will Be Given To You


Luke 6:32-38          (NRSV))
“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. If you lend to those from whom you hope to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to receive as much again. But love your enemies, do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return. Your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. 

“Do not judge, and you will not be judged; do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap; for the measure you give will be the measure you get back.” 



Way back when I was in confirmation we had the pastor come into our class and talk about tithing.
         Do any of you remember when you first heard that concept?

He shared that as followers of Jesus we are asked to tithe our income to support the work of the church
I thought that is no big deal --- my parents had always taught me to set aside part of my allowance and any money that I earned to take to Sunday School class and put in the offering

Then he explained exactly what a tithe is
         Dave Ramsey defines it this way:
Simply put, the tithe is the first 10% of your income that should be given to your local church. It’s strictly measured in money, so you can’t replace it with giving your time or your talents.

And the first thing that came to my mind was NO WAY!
         I am happy to share --- but 10% --- you have got to be kidding me

Fast forward probably about 10 or 15 years --- I am a recent seminary graduate
         And as far as I remember I was not taught anything about "giving" in school
                  If I was, I must have slept through that class

Now I am sitting at Garrett Evangelical Theological Seminary attending a continuing education event on evangelism.

Bob Tuttle was leading the class and he made a couple of rather distinct points that have always stuck with me
First --- he said that unless you become generous and give as the biblical text teaches your spirituality will always be stunted.

Second --- that you cannot ask other people to support the biblical concept of the tithe if you are not willing to do it yourself.

I remember when I got home I began to wrestle with this idea of a tithe. 

The verses he had shared with us were stuck in my mind.

According to Leviticus 27:30, “A tenth of the land’s produce, whether grain from the ground or fruit from the trees, is God’s. It is holy to God.”

And 2 Corinthians 9:7, says, “Each of you must give as you have made up your mind, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

And also Luke 6:38  (CEB)
Give, and it will be given to you. A good portion—packed down, firmly shaken, and overflowing—will fall into your lap. The portion you give will determine the portion you receive in return.”

But that passage poses some interesting questions --- do we give so that we can receive?

If we are tithing to God so that we can get more blessings from God in return --- it is clear that our motive is selfish and self-serving.

We give --- we tithe to God --- simply to express our honest thanks and gratitude for all that God has already given us. 

Tithing forces us to not focus on ourselves and our own needs --- but to focus on God and how everything we have --- everything we are ---- is a gift from the hands of a generous God.

Repeatedly scripture reminds us that God owns it all
         Everything that you have comes from God

Giving 10% back to God is just a practical way for us to say thanks for the 100% that God has given to us

Tithing is not a legalistic requirement like paying dues to the Rotary Club or some other service organization or social club.

Tithing is an act of obedience and should be given freely with pure motives. In other words, we give without expecting anything back in return. And it teaches us to be good stewards of what God has given us.

As much as I was struggling to originally believe it: tithing was created for our benefit.
It teaches us how to keep God first in our lives and how to live unselfishly.
Unselfish people make better spouses, friends, relatives, employees and employers.
And they usually have better finances.

In order to tithe we must take the spiritual stance that Henri Nouwen wrote about in his little book: With Open Hands.  We must open up our lives and our hearts and trust God by not holding on so tightly to the blessings --- the things --- we have received.

When we open our hands and give generously to God then we are in the open handed position in which we can receive from God.

If we live with our fists tightly closed --- keeping our resources to ourselves --- keep our love to ourselves ---- we close ourselves off from receiving that which God wishes to put into our lives.

The only way we can truly give to God is with open hands
         And it is the only way that we can receive

We live in a society that encourages greed --- encourages us to grab as much as we can and to hold on to it tightly.
         The only antidote for greed is generosity

         One cannot be generous and greedy at the same time

Let’s go back to this passage from Luke, because I find it fascinating. 
Jesus says: “A good portion—packed down, firmly shaken, and overflowing—will fall into your lap”

In order to grasp the meaning, we need to know that it is set in the context of a Middle Eastern market where the buyers and sellers would haggle together over prices, quality, and amount.

It is a scene often repeated in many developing countries today.

Farmers bring their grain—wheat, corn, barley—and spread it on a mat on the ground. Potential customers examine the grain, make an offer, and the haggling begins.
When a price is finally set, the customer offers his container—usually a large bowl or pot—and the seller uses a scoop to fill the container.

It’s exactly at this point that the process becomes fascinating.

In Jesus’ day there were basically four stages of measuring grain for a customer:
         First, the seller fills the container to the top.
         Second, he presses the grain down and fills some more.
         Third, he shake the container so the grain will settle and then fills some more.
         Finally, he fills the container until it overflows.

The seller would catch the overflow grain and pour it into the pouch of his robe.

Jesus is describing a situation that took place every time a person went to market.

It’s unusual to us because everything we buy at the store is already measured, sealed, and wrapped with shrink wrap.
         It’s also labeled on the outside: “Contents sold by weight not by volume.”

But in Jesus’ day grain was sold by volume not by weight.
Hence why we are told that the grain was pressed down and shaken together.

What exactly is Jesus trying to teach us here about Christian giving?

Let me suggest two things

         1. When you give, God gives back to you

         2. God uses the same measure you use!

Or to put it in modern terms …

If you are stingy, God will be stingy in return!

If you are generous, God will be generous in return!

When I came home from that continuing education event Nancy and I made the commitment to tithe ---- my salary at the time was $13,300
         We had not been married all that long
                  And soon three little girls would start coming along

I can tell you this --- it wasn't always easy

But we made the conscious choice that God would get the first fruits.  We gave our tithe to the church --- along with offerings above the tithe and gifts to many other agencies.

Even when the church I was serving didn't have the funds in the bank to pay me, we found a way to give our tithe on what I should have (and eventually would) been paid.

All I can say is --- it was the best decision we have ever made

Tithing forces us to put God first.
         And then our wants and desires can fall into their proper places

Let me close with this story:
A pastor came to Mr. Jones and asked him, "If you had a million dollars would you give half of it to the Lord?" Mr. Jones replied, "Of course I would, pastor!" "If you had two houses would you give one of them to the Lord?" "Of course I would, pastor!" Then he asked, "If you had two cows would you give one of them to the Lord?" Mr. Jones answered, "Now pastor, that's not fair! You know I have two cows!"

God doesn't want what we cannot give.

God however desires for us to learn to be generous --- just as God has been generous to us.

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