Wednesday, October 30, 2019

The Way of Gratitude: Thanks


Luke 17:11-19 
On the way to Jerusalem Jesus was going through the region between Samaria and Galilee. As he entered a village, ten lepers approached him. Keeping their distance, they called out, saying, “Jesus, Master, have mercy on us!” When he saw them, he said to them, “Go and show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went, they were made clean. Then one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, praising God with a loud voice. He prostrated himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him. And he was a Samaritan. Then Jesus asked, “Were not ten made clean? But the other nine, where are they? Was none of them found to return and give praise to God except this foreigner?” Then he said to him, “Get up and go on your way; your faith has made you well.” 


What happens when you forget to be thankful?

Have you ever pondered the consequences of missing the opportunities to be thankful in your life?

This story in Luke’s Gospel is one of my favorites.

Jesus comes across ten lepers.

In Jesus’ day, people who had leprosy or any kind of clearly visible and highly contagious disease were ostracized from the rest of society.
They were viewed as unclean.

Not only did a leper have to deal with a sometimes irritating often painful disease, but they also were cut off from their family, friends, and community.

It is hard to imagine what that life would have been like

All of a sudden --- as Jesus enters a village --- ten men with leprosy see Jesus and the text tells us that they kept their distance (as the law --- the rules of the day required) but called out to him.  
“Jesus, Master, show us mercy!”
Without a doubt, they were hoping that, this miracle worker that they have been hearing about might heal them.

I find it interesting, that Luke doesn’t tell us that Jesus does anything for these men --- notice he never tells us that he heals them --- instead Jesus simply says to them: “Go, show yourselves to the priests.”

Why have them go and show themselves to the priest?
Because the priests would have the final say on whether or not they were truly healed and whether or not they could be welcomed back into the community.

As they begin walking away --- (we are not sure what they are thinking or where they are going.)
          Are they on their way to see a priest?
Or have they decided Jesus isn’t going to do anything for them and so they are walking away?

But as they go --- SOMETHING has happened
          And one of them recognizes this.

And the story says, that when he realized he was clean he turned back.

Now, the story doesn’t tell us how quickly this took place.

If you go and look at the Sunday School pictures they tend to make it look like they got about 3 steps from Jesus and WOW – they are healed --- the one turns back and the other three continue on their selfish way

But that might not be what happened

They may have gone some considerable distance --- between themselves and Jesus --- by the time they were healed.
          And again --- we really don’t know where they were going

Regardless, of how quickly, or how much time had passed --- one of the lepers saw that he was now healed and he went and found Jesus and told him thanks.

And then Luke throws in a little aside --- which for most of us doesn’t mean much
Luke tells us that this man --- the one of the 10 who returned to tell God thanks --- Luke tells us that he was a Samaritan

Why is that a big deal?
          Because the Samaritans were despised by the Jewish people
                   They saw them as half-breeds
                             Not pure Jews
          Jesus wasn’t supposed to have anything to do with them.

But Luke wants us to know --- first, that Jesus healed a Samaritan, and second that this Samaritan stopped and gave God thanks.

And it begs a question: How often is giving God thanks a priority in our lives? 

We may pray before we eat a meal and tell God thanks

We might even write a note or say thanks when someone gives us a gift or does something nice for us?

But, how often do you give thanks for the people around you?

Too often we get so busy, so wrapped up in the chaos of life, that we fail to say thanks to those all around us

·         Students --- when was the last time you said thanks to your teachers for all that they do to help you grow and learn?
·         Employees --- when was the last time you said thanks to your employers for the opportunities they give you?
·         Employers --- when was the last time you said thanks to your employees for the hard work and dedication they give?
·         Children --- when was the last time you said thanks to your parents?
·         Parents --- when was the last time you said thanks to your children?

Obviously, I could go on and on
          But the question is still there --- how good are we at giving thanks?

We don’t often thank those around us who serve us, help us, lead us, and direct us.

It’s not that we don’t appreciate it, but we are just so busy.

We have things to do.
We’ve got to get to the priests --- or the Colts game --- we don’t have time to go back for thanksgiving.

What happens when we fail to be grateful?

I don’t know about you --- but I know what happens to me
          I become irritable
                   Not fun to be around
          I start taking things for granted
          And I know that my ungratefulness can rub off on other people

We all know what it is like to be with ungrateful people

But we also know what it is to be around someone who is truly grateful
          They are a joy to be with
          Their attitude is contagious --- it also tends to rub off on us

Jesus tells us something else happens when we live with gratefulness --- and this may be the most important

Do you know what follows this story in Luke’s Gospel?
Pharisees asked Jesus when God’s kingdom was coming. He replied, “God’s kingdom isn’t coming with signs that are easily noticed. Nor will people say, ‘Look, here it is!’ or ‘There it is!’ Don’t you see? God’s kingdom is already among you.”

Jesus follows up the story of the man who showed gratitude by telling us about the very presence of the kingdom

Jesus is saying: Grateful people are kingdom people

If you want to experience the kingdom of God --- it is found in giving thanks!

But how do we do it?

Henri Nouwen has said:
Gratitude is the awareness that life in all its manifestations is a gift for which we want to give thanks. The closer we come to God in prayer, the more we become aware of the abundance of God’s gifts to us. . . .Thus gratitude becomes a quality of our hearts that allows us to live joyfully and peacefully . . .

Ultimately, I am convinced that gratitude is a choice --- a way of life

Again Nouwen writes:
Gratitude...goes beyond the “mine” and “thine” and claims the truth that all of life is a pure gift. In the past I always thought of gratitude as a spontaneous response to the awareness of gifts received, but now I realize that gratitude can also be lived as a discipline. The discipline of gratitude is the explicit effort to acknowledge that all I am and have is given to me as a gift of love, a gift to be celebrated with joy.

Gratitude as a discipline involves a conscious choice. I can choose to be grateful even when my emotions and feelings are still steeped in hurt and resentment. It is amazing how many occasions present themselves in which I can choose gratitude instead of a complaint. . . . The choice for gratitude rarely comes without some real effort. But each time I make it, the next choice is a little easier, a little freer, a little less self-conscious. . . . There is an Estonian proverb that says: “Who does not thank for little will not thank for much.” Acts of gratitude make one grateful because, step by step, they reveal that all is grace.

I was listening to a Podcast by Rona Renner and Dr. Christine Carter, and was intrigued by something they said.
          Their opinion is --- gratitude is a learned behavior

The more we practice gratitude --- the more that we will experience it
          And the more that we will see things all around us that we are thankful for

One of the jokes in my family is that my dad, who at times as he has gotten older can be a bit of a curmudgeon --- has developed this amazing attitude toward eating out.

Every time that I have gone out with him over the last three or four years --- at the conclusion of the meal he will declare it the best meal ever.
          EVERY SINGLE TIME
I have to admit – that some --- not so great meals --- were better because of his attitude.

But isn’t that attitude so much better than finding fault?      
          Finding fault is easy
          Living in gratitude takes hard work

How does one develop an attitude of gratitude?
1.    You have to work at it
2.    You have to open your eyes to see things to be thankful for

The best way that I have found to do this is by taking time every day to write down what I am thankful for.
Every evening, before putting their children to bed, Renner and Carter ask their children to share something that they were thankful for that day.
The amazing thing that they have noticed is that the children do it now throughout the day --- without even being asked
          It becomes second nature
                   A part of one’s life

You can go out and buy a gratitude journal
Or I have provided for you a link to a free online one

Give it a try and see what will happen

I am convinced --- that the more thankful we are --- the more real the kingdom of God becomes.

The more we live in God’s kingdom --- the more we have to be thankful for

So, what are you thankful for?
          Who do you need to thank today?

Take some time and share your gratitude -- and you will be blessed --- for the kingdom will have drawn close

Give thanks --- in each and every moment.

1 comment:

Scott Bruins said...

This is very insightful and right on.